There is a constant grief cycle which needs to be managed as this could lead to anxiety, Post Traumatic Stress Disorder or depression, not to mention relationship problems.
There are so many challenges to the relationship during this process. They can be managed successfully before each starts withdrawing.
There is a significant grief cycle, even after a failed fertility process like IVF.
Stillbirths and neonatal challenges or losses are heart breaking. Even if loses one twin, there is grief and sadness; and constant reminders of the others.
They are with us always.
Such a mixture of happiness and sadness, pleasure and guilt, new memories and anniversaries.
Fertility triggers are those events or feelings or hooks that remind us of our infertility and creates a sense of isolation, desperation and anger.
We feel very alone and need to learn how to seek support and manage those around us.